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[2/25, 10:01 PM] Kak Asiah: You know, its not of my business to tell you but its just my two sen worth of thought
[2/25, 10:02 PM] Kak Asiah: Before Marriage, its is not about compromising.
[2/25, 10:02 PM] Kak Asiah: It is also not about okay lah he will do kind of thing
[2/25, 10:04 PM] Kak Asiah: Choosing a partner he must be able to make you feel happy, challenges you In positive way to be better. Allowing for space and most of all, its is being happy for the sake of Allah and Rasul.
[2/25, 10:05 PM] Kak Asiah: Also it is not because he has stay long with me so, yeah i get married to him. That is caving to pressure because he want to get married
[2/25, 10:06 PM] Kak Asiah: From what I gather, you would like someone who can read the Quran, teach you to be better. All for the sake of Allah
[2/25, 10:08 PM] Kak Asiah: Hence, my only advice is, ditch the idea of applying rumah.
Tell your partner now that you are not ready as he is.
Tell him to shut up.
Then if he complaint, tell him he can have a 2nd thought about marriage.
[2/25, 10:08 PM] Kak Asiah: Meanwhile, in your own space, seek Allah's guidance. A simple doa anytime you are free or have 1 second for yourself
[2/25, 10:09 PM] Kak Asiah: Tell our Merciful Lord, that you want to settle. But You want Allah to guide because you know what you want.
[2/25, 10:10 PM] Kak Asiah: I know our All knowing Lord, will answer your prayers
[2/25, 10:10 PM] Kak Asiah: Sape tau hehehe dapat Ustaz
[2/25, 10:12 PM] Kak Asiah: Thats all I can say. Because honestly, b4 marriage, frequently I made doa. Then between what I want, Allah gave me what I need.
[2/25, 10:16 PM] Kak Asiah: Dun worry about the house. Allah will provide for you