12:33 AM Monday, April 18, 2016 back to top?

• 16 April 2016, Saturday. The day went our own ways.

So we broke up on the 16 April. I still remember, we wanted to celebrate our belated birthday together.
But then sadly the cake melted. We talked abit at Suntec. Then we went to Madeehul Mustafa concert at Esplanade. After which, we went to Raffles City McD. And then we continued our talk.

So we should stay or should we move on? You gave me the question. The decision. At first i never really wanted for us to break, but then, i think back.. Maybe not is the right time for us to open this topic between us.
So i said, "Lets move on Raihan..." :'(

I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
No words could describe how much I've hurt you.
I was mean, uncaring and complacent towards you.
I was ridiculous.

That sparks and the chase we've once had.. It's lost now. Sparks won't fly anymore.

The next day on 17 April,  after we ended our relationship...

Raihan: Im sorry that i raised the question last night.

So I send him one whole long messages for him. One which I really deeply gather my thoughts about.

It's OK. Don't need to be sorry. I'm the one who should be saying sorry to you.
Im sorry that I've hurt your feelings...

Thank you for being the most amazing and wonderful boyfriend a girl could ever had.Thank you for being my prince charming.Thank you for always being patiently waiting.
Thank you for sacrificing your time and loyalty in our relationship. I'm sorry that our relationship did not happen like what we we've expected it to be. Im sorry Raihan.
I'm sorry for hurting you, messing up your feelings, I'm sorry for being that mean girl to you.

I didn't mean to hurt your feelings. I know both us are hurting deep inside.
Eventhough it's been 4 years since we've been together... Know that i was very sincere in loving you and caring for you.
I do not regret the time we've spent and shared.
Our time together was lovely and I appreciate everything that you've done.

Those moments we had, our times together ... It'll be very hard to forget about it.. i know.
But I feel it's ok, even if we don't forget it, it's ok we don't need to forget it. Let's just embraced those feelings we've had for each other other, let it be as our strength and inspiration to move on in our life...

I love you, for the sake of Allah.

I hope you and I will find happiness. Im sure.
I don't want you to beat yourself up. It's not your fault. It's my fault too. Im sorry. I'm sorry.
I don't want you to blame yourself.

I don't want you to be soo down. >
I want you to be stronger.
I want you to loveeothers like how you've once loved me too.

One day, if it's meant to be, it will be.
I will always pray for you. For your happiness, your smile, your laughter.
I pray for Allah to guide you, protect you and gives you strength in this dunia and akhirat.

Even if we are not together, I want you to still keep your head held high, chin up and go forth in whatever obstacles in your way. I know you can do it.

I'm sorry I can't be by your side to watch you, to grow with. But you will always be in my heart. InsyaAllah.
I want you to be the best you can be. It's ok to cry, because im crying too and it hurts me too.
Let's pray for each other okay?
 I'm sorry if it's not complete or in pieces or scarred. I'm sorry that I'm unable to plaster it back together.
It won't be the same... I know.

But deep down I'm pretty sure, once upon a time, there will come a girl who is kind, caring, beautiful, who loves you unconditionally.. Of whom which you would be madly in love with...
And she will stitch up the broken pieces of your heart and your heart will recovers like how it was before..
Like how you've always been that caring and kind, humble down to earth, wonderful and amazing man who had once unconditionally love someone wholeheartedly.

Please love her whole-heartedly too? After marriage I mean (: Give her your whole 100+ %.
Maybe that's why in Islam, it's forbidden of us to be together before marriage, because of all these heartbreaks.

Let's take it as a lesson we both learnt.
Please forgives me for all the wrong-doings I've done.

For I love you for the sake of Allah. 💚
And that was my reply.

-I cried while typing these words to send to him.

4 years. It been such a long time, my dear.
Why you broke up with him? Haiz.. I know. One day I'll explain.
But deep down, I know once I let him go.. I'll be losing a precious gem 💎.

I pray for Allah to take care of his heart.
Gives him someone, who's even more better than me. Gives him strength please to continue move on in this life.

I'm so scared that Raihan will be at his lowest point. I don't want that! I don't want to hurt him soo badly.
But I know I can't waste his time and his love.
He deserves someone better than me.

Once (as in last time) I talked about breaking up with him... And then, he sudden cried infront of me and begs me not to break up.
But yesterday, when I said those words again... he didn't break down and seems fine
But I know his heart shattered into pieces.
And while saying those hurtful words of break up, suddenly tears rolled down my cheeks. i do not know why I'm crying.
Eventhough I was the one who initiated those words.

I'm sorry for not trying Raihan.
I'm sorry that it has become to this.
Forget about me, forget everything. Our past, our moments our experiences. Forget it all if you need to.
Please don't hurt and lower yourself down.

:'( *crying while writing this post.